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Awesome Apathy-Buster Strategies for Unmotivated, Apathetic,
MisBehaved, and At-Risk Students





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Awesome Apathy-Buster Strategies for Unmotivated, Apathetic,
MisBehaved, and At-Risk Students

Teachers, they don’t give you motivation-makers
when you are in college. It takes about 2 minutes
in the classroom to realize that you could have
really used courses on motivating the motionless.
From our popular workshops, books and posters,
here are just a few of our favorite motivation-
makers that you will use everyday. Want more
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hundreds more methods so good that they can
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  • For kids who often complain about where they ended up, you can
    encourage them to “bloom where they are planted.” This is a
    wonderful intervention for foster kids in particular.

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  • For kids who can’t imagine ever having a positive future, or any
    future at all, ask them to write a letter to you as though it was the
    year 2045. In the letter, the youth can describe what happened
    to them since they last saw you. For non-writers, they can draw or
    make an audiotape instead of writing, or, you can write for them.
  • For kids who are “wrapped in barbed wire,” their apathy and
    harshness hiding a very gentle and vulnerable child, ask them to
    decide which they would rather have: “a bruised heart or a boxed
    heart?”
  • When you ask a child what they want to be when they grow up,
    and you hear back, “I don’t care,” instead of confronting
    that, say back: “Well, if you did care…” This potent intervention
    detours beautifully around answers that normally would keep the
    child from even speculating about positive outcomes. The child
    gets to hang onto their discouragement while doing the work that
    you wanted them to do. This unusual intervention works with nearly
    any answer that a child gives you. For example, when the child says
    “I don’t know what I want to be when I grow up,” you can respond
    with “Well, if you did know…”
  • For kids who can’t imagine a future that is positive, have them
    make their “Future Homes and Gardens” using art supplies. They
    can draw floor plans or design rooms of their future dream home.
    You may be surprised at the results you get from the most sullen
    and resentful kids.
  • For counselors, social workers and mental health workers only
    to use (carefully) to better “open up” very defensive, apathetic
    youth, this next intervention is very powerful. Ask the child to
    make a life line. They make the life line by writing their major
    life events on file cards. Next, they string the cards onto a
    piece of ribbon or string. This is their life line. If you doubt the
    effectiveness of this intervention, make your own life line. If
    you aren’t moved by the experience, you must have had an easy
    life. Only clinicians should use this devices as it must be used
    with extreme care as it can stir up much emotion in some
    children. Avoid this exercise with depressed kids.



  • For kids that complain that school is boring, I’ll just go on
    welfare, respond, “Yes, you are right. School is boring. Nothing
    like the excitement of the welfare office line.” This intervention
    is not for every kid; use it only with youth who would respond to
    this type of humorous, edgy intervention.
  • For kids who view school or job training as a waste of their
    time, have them list their current job skills, then have them determine
    where their skills will fit best: in the current or past century. Teach
    kids that 80% of the jobs that will exist for them are not even known
    yet. These jobs will require computer skills, math skills, writing skills
    etc. Do their skills fit that or jobs from the past?
  • For kids who plan to use illegal activities as their source of future
    income, recap local, state and federal law. For example, depending on
    which laws they break, offenders can lose not only the money gained
    by illegal actions, but also their home, possessions and vehicles. Under
    some federal laws, the homes and possessions of relatives and friends
    may be seized even if these items weren’t directly involved in the
    commission of the crime. Illegal activities are not as lucrative as
    your kids tell you. Auto theft generates about $18,000 per year,
    for example, far less than what a typical high school grad earns.

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  • For kids who insist crime is lucrative, have them guess the likely
    income from crime, then have them guess how much time in jail they
    will face, and the number of years they will have before being
    incarcerated. Then ask the youth to calculate how much they
    really earned. For example, if a youth earned $30,000 per year
    for 2 years before being incarcerated, then was jailed for 2 years,
    that works out to a just $15,000 per year, an amount that is vastly
    less than a high school grad earns. Plus, the grad’s earnings cannot be
    confiscated but the offender’s earnings can.
  • For kids who plan to just rely on welfare, advise them to hurry
    and get on it fast before welfare goes away.


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Oppositional Defiant (ODD) Students: Must Have Methods

If you are a counselor or teacher who finds that “nothing works”
to manage some students, this article may help. It’s
way past time for you to learn about ODD, Oppositional
Defiant Disorder.

In college, you probably got very little training
on basic mental health, but if you’ve been counseling or teaching
for more than five minutes, you know that little bit
of training wasn’t enough. Here’s just a quick
peek at what they should have taught you in college
about basic juvenile mental health. Be aware however
that this article gives you just 1% of what you will
need to know in your classroom in order to maintain
control and best assist each challenged student.

WHAT DOES OPPOSITIONAL-DEFIANT MEAN?
“Oppositional-Defiant” is a mental health diagnosis that
describes kids that have consciences but sometimes act
like they don’t. This diagnosis can only be applied by
a mental health professional but will be very important
for any youth worker to know and understand. This
diagnosis is far more hopeful than “conduct disorder,”
which means the child lacks a conscience and a real
capacity for relationships. While the oppositional-
defiant child (ODD) may also appear to have little
conscience or relationship capacity, you may be able to
improve that with the right approach and methods. With
conduct disordered youth, such improvement may not
be possible.

WHAT DOES “OPPOSITIONAL-DEFIANCE” LOOK LIKE?
Oppositional-defiant kids are often some of your most
misbehaved students. They may disrupt your class,
hurt others, defy authority and engage in illegal
or problematic conduct. Though they may look similar
to conduct disorders, their bad behavior is usually
less severe, less frequent, and of shorter duration.
The ODD label is often inaccurately applied as this
dynamic can be a difficult concept to grasp and apply.
Many ADD youth are also ODD, and boys dominate
this category.

**THE 3 AREAS OF HELP FOR ODD YOUTH
The thrust of helping the ODD child must focus on
1) Skill building, plus 2)”Pulling up” that
conscience and 3)Improving their relationship skills.
For skill building, teaching them how to regulate their
anger, actions, peer skills, verbal output, etc. will
be critical. But equally important, this child must
be aided to care about others and to be guided more
by conscience. These are areas we cover extensively in
our live and taped workshops, but here are a few of the
most effective interventions we give especially for ODD
children and teens. These interventions will only focus
on stimulating that conscience or “compensating” for it.
If you want more than the handful of ideas given here,
or, you want to see how to build skills or
relationship capacity, the other two crucial aspects
to concentrate on with ODD kids, then consider coming
to our class or getting some of our books that will
deliver hundreds of the solutions you need.

**STRATEGIES TO STIMULATE THE CONSCIENCE OF ODD KIDS

*** To help “pull up” the child’s conscience, use
this intervention. It can be used pro-actively or
reactively (before or after the child has engaged in
misbehavior.) For example, let’s say the child has
stolen the teacher’s pen, you can say “I want you to
imagine that we’re making a video about your life.
Are you impressed?” That “uncomfortable sensation that
the child may have in reaction to this intervention may
be the conscience stirring.

*** Another intervention to stimulate the conscience:
after the child has engaged in a problem behavior, such
as stealing a pen, as in the example above, ask the
child, “So what’s your integrity worth to you?”

*** To adapt the intervention shown above for young
children, simply rephrase the question to “So what’s
people believing in you, worth to you?” Or, rephrase
it to “So what’s people trusting you, worth to you?”

*** Before a child undertakes a problem behavior, ask
the youth to imagine that s/he will read about that
act on the cover of the local newspaper in the morning.
Ask the child their reaction. If they say that they
wouldn’t want to read about it in the newspaper, the next
morning, then you can say “Then don’t do it!” This
image makes a fast and easy guide for kids to
follow to evaluate whether or not to do questionable
behaviors. This intervention is a good choice to use
with children whose conscience provides little guidance.

Remember: you’ve just gotten a tiny portion of the
information you need on ODD students. Please be sure to
read more, go to a training, or otherwise update your
skills. There is no substitute for getting the tools
you need for your classroom.


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Forgotten Favorite Strategies for Unmotivated, Difficult and Misbehaved Students

We have so many interventions that sometimes even some of
our favorite devices can be forgotten. These techniques used
to be regularly included in our popular Breakthrough Strategies
to Teach and Counsel Troubled Youth Workshops
(click here),
but not so often now,
though perhaps they should be. So, here are some old but
golden strategies that should be used not forgotten. Want
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  • FOR YOUTH WHO DISRUPT THE CLASS OR GROUP
    To teach hand-raising, wave your arms all around and name
    that “windshield wiper arms” or “helicopter arms.” To show
    students correct hand-raising technique, hold your arm in
    the air and still and call it “flagpole arm.” Using these images
    may work better than conventional approaches.
  • FOR YOUTH WHO CAN’T IMAGINE EVER CHANGING
    Have the youth create before and after ads, similar to weight
    loss commercials. You can even photocopy weight loss ads from
    magazines and let students insert their own pictures or art work
    that portrays their own personal before and after. This device
    is especially good with withdrawn children who dislike talking.


  • FOR YOUTH WITH LOW SELF-ESTEEM
    Have the kids create a magazine about what they do well over
    the next month. The magazine can feature a picture of the
    student on the cover and highlight successes that the student
    has. Name the magazine “Esteem Magazine,” with a motto of
    “for students who know that Esteem is more than hot air.”
    The magazine may also contain articles on self-worth and lists
    such as “The Top 10 Things People Like About Me.”
  • FOR YOUTH WHO THINK SCHOOL IS A WASTE
    Here are the very latest numbers that show once more
    that education pays and pays and pays! These new numbers
    make an old intervention even more profound and even more
    powerful! Use play money to illustrate or put this information
    in a chart on your board, or do both. Follow up by having
    students experience how much money is worth by visiting a
    store, car dealership or reviewing housing classified ads.
    As of January, 2000, drop-outs can expect to earn just
    over $16,000, based on 1998 dollars. High school grads
    earn nearly $23,000 and college grads almost $45,000.
    Ask your kids to pick their salary for the new millennium.







  • FOR ABSENT YOUTH
    For kids who are frequently absent, bring in a lot
    of legos or lincoln logs. Ask the students to copy a
    model you create out of the legos. The students
    will easily do it and discuss that with the class.
    Next, begin to make a second model but this
    time, part way through the building process,
    ask some of the students to leave the room, then
    hide several legos inside the model. Recall the
    students and ask them to compare their model
    to yours. Assist the class to notice the poorer
    quality that resulted from the absences then discuss
    if being absent matters.
  • FOR YOUTH FACING PEER PRESSURE
    Peer pressure to use drugs and alcohol is nonstop but
    here is a quick device to chip away at the power of the
    pressure. Divide your students into two groups. Give
    one group bags of M&Ms and give the other group
    bags of litter. Allow the students to mingle. The
    students with the litter will try to get others to
    take their bags while the students with the candy will
    want to keep their bags and will not force others to
    take the M&Ms. Relate this phenomena to peer pressure
    to use substances by discussing that people seldom
    need to pressure people to do good things, only bad.


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Teachers: Did Your Training Prepare You to Work with Difficult, Tardy, Truant and Conduct Disordered Students?

Teachers, when you received your training to teach, the world probably looked much different. Guns meant water pistols and gangs meant West Side Story.

Here is a test to see if your skills have kept up with
the changes in our kids. If you discover that you are
more prepared to work with Beaver Cleaver than Beavis
and Butthead, then consider coming to our Problem
Student Problem-Solver professional development
training workshop (details below) or
ordering some of our books and tapes. Our resources
can turbo-charge your skills to fit contemporary kids.

The answers are shown below and at the bottom you can also rate your skills for working with today’s youth and children.

  • 1. Who is the hardest-to-manage, most potentially
    violent kid, and how must you work with them
    differently than everybody else?
  • Bonus Question: If you work with this hardest-
    to-manage child using the same approaches you use
    with everyone else, what is likely to happen?
  • 2. There may be just 3 major ways that kids can
    respond to adult directions. Name the 3 ways.
  • Bonus Question: What is the only effective
    way to get children to comply with adult directions?
  • 3. Name the student most likely to drop out.
  • Bonus Question: What other problems will
    this child quite likely face?
  • 4. Who are the kids at highest risk of extreme
    violence?
  • Bonus Question: Why do you work differently
    with each of these kids?
  • 5. Other than violence prevention, name the
    single most important school readiness skill to
    teach to students. (Hint: Most schools don’t have
    a formal plan to teach it, but they all require it)
  • Bonus Question: When is the time to teach
    this skill?

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    ANSWERS

    1. CONDUCT DISORDERS.
    Conduct disorder is a mental health term that
    essentially means that the child is sociopathic.
    While you can continue to successfully use
    relationship-based approaches with any other
    child, these methods almost inevitably flop
    with conduct disorders who, by definition,
    can’t relate normally to others.

    Bonus Question: If you use conventional
    relationship-based approaches with conduct
    disorders, it conveys to them that you do
    not understand them. It may be close to
    painting a target on your chest. Actions
    that are normally appropriate under some
    circumstances, such as giving one more
    chance, can be dangerous even disastrous
    with conduct disorders. If you do not know
    this child backwards and forwards, you may
    lack key tools to ensure your safety and
    the safety of other children.

    2. The child can become OPPOSITIONAL.
    The child can CAPITULATE if coerced to
    do so. The child can comply: ACCEPTANCE.

    Bonus Question: Acceptance is really the
    only way to gain compliance. Power-
    struggling with oppositional kids means
    everyone loses especially you as no adult
    ever wins a power struggle with a kid. If
    you must hassle and harass a kid into
    capitulating, that is not a positive
    way of interacting with others that
    you want the child to emulate as it
    will normally not work in the world.
    Plus, imagine the harm you might
    do hassling a troubled child by
    coercing compliance from them.
    Acceptance is the standard that works
    everywhere and won’t damage even a
    very vulnerable child while gaining their
    compliance.

    3. TEEN MOMS

    Bonus Question: Teen moms also have
    the highest risk of poverty, going on
    welfare and never getting off of
    welfare when compared to anyone else.
    Shouldn’t everyone know who is the
    one child at highest risk of dropping
    out and be aware of the potential
    additional litany of woes?

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    4. CONDUCT DISORDERS, THOUGHT
    DISORDERS, EXTREMELY DEPRESSED
    KIDS

    Bonus Question: Each of these 3 children
    needs a very different kind of help. For
    example, the thought-disordered child
    might be able to benefit tremendously
    from medication, while there is no medicine
    for conduct disorders. This means that to
    best prevent extreme violence, you must
    understand how to work with different kids
    very differently.

    5. ATTENDANCE
    If the student isn’t in your classroom, you
    can’t work your magic on them
    Bonus Question: Day 1 of school. It’s that
    important.

    SCORING:
    (Score 1 point for each
    question or bonus question)
    8-10 You’re READY for even the “South Park” kids!
    5-8 You’re DUE for a Training Update!
    0-4 You’re OVERDUE for a Training Update!

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Teach Students Teacher Interaction Skills for Better Classroom Management and Control

At our popular Breakthrough Strategies to Teach and
Counsel Troubled Youth Workshops
(click on the sign below for details), we always let the course
participants name the problem areas they want to cover
during the inservice workshop. We can always count
on teachers asking for ideas for classroom management
and control. Nearly every teacher has had moments
when maintaining control over the class was difficult
or impossible. Some teachers tell us that their class
has actually gotten out of control. Here’s help.

So many students believe that they should be in charge
of the classroom and that they know more than the
teacher. It can be tough to teach hard-to-manage
students who think they should be in charge. Since few
schools have a written game plan to formally train their
kids to be students, you may see a lot of younger and
older youth who do not look, act or sound like students.

Until trained to be students, some youngsters may
continue to be unmanageable. Here is a small sampling
from our arsenal of strategies to effectively teach
kids to be successful students. The strategies
offered here will focus on just one of the many
skill areas you need to cover: how to interact
properly with teachers. Don’t forget to cover those
other areas too—how often to talk in class, what
to say or not say, how to be on task, how to arrive
on time, how to interact with other students and
so on. Our books and classes cover all these areas
in depth, but here’s a peek at some of our best!

  • Who Is Qualified to Be in Charge?
    For students who believe that they should run the
    class, have your kids list out all the qualifications
    that teachers must have. Write their responses
    on the board and elicit answers like “have a
    college degree” and “have a license to teach.”
    Next, ask the class to determine who has these
    qualifications, the teacher or students? This
    intervention can very effectively squelch
    your “know-it-all” students’ attempts to be
    the boss of the class.

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  • Just Say “Yes”
    So often, “NO!” is the first word from a
    student’s mouth in response to a teacher’s
    direction. Understandably, that response
    can become a problem quite quickly. Teach
    the students that a “trick” to more often
    get your teacher to do what you want is to
    say “Yes.” Drill the students to use
    sentences such as “Yes, I will do the math
    but can you show me how” and “Yes, but I
    don’t really want to do it.” Teach students
    that “Yes” is the magic word to use with
    teachers to have a better chance to get
    what they want. Also, discuss what
    bad things can happen to employees who say
    “NO” to bosses, and note that school is the
    place to prepare for employment to avoid
    “practicing on the job.”
  • Help Me Faster
    When the teacher doesn’t immediately respond
    to a request for help, some students become upset
    or misbehave, sometimes believing that the teacher
    hates them—that’s why they don’t respond faster.
    To quickly show students why the teacher doesn’t
    always immediately provide aid every time, have a
    student assume the role of teacher then have all the
    other students request help at once. The role-play
    teacher will quickly understand why the teacher is
    unable to always provide instant aid. Ask the students
    to recommend how the teacher should allocate aid.
    The class will suggest that the teacher respond to the
    person who requests help first, which should prove to
    be an easy-to-do answer for the teacher to follow.
  • Teachers Are Lousy Mind Readers
    To show students that teachers are unable to decipher
    what that their tantrum or sulking means, teach students
    that teachers are lousy mind readers. Have students
    think of numbers, and have the teacher attempt to guess
    the numbers. Keep score on the board. Assess the score
    and discuss that teachers can’t read minds very well.
    Discuss when students sometimes expect teachers to
    read minds, and what students could do that would
    work much better.
  • Top 10 Ways Your Teacher Can’t Tell You Need Help
    To further teach students that teachers are unable
    to magically determine when students need help, have
    the class make a Top 10 List. Title this list “The Top 10
    Ways Your Teacher Can’t Tell You Need Help.” Elicit
    answers such as “you glare.” Post the completed list
    on the wall and discuss what might work better

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Transform At Risk, Apathetic, Bored, Unmotivated, Disinterested, Negative Students

If you know a student who utterly lacks motivation
and interest for school, keep reading. Taken from our
Quickest Kid Fixer-Uppers Books
(link below), here are
novel, unexpected ways to turnaround apathetic, bored,
unmotivated, disinterested, at risk, negative students.
Once you’ve used these methods, you may find that
you are finally working with motivated, hopeful,
interested students who recognize the incredible value of school.

  • If Life Were This Easy: Use this intervention with
    students who think your services are a waste of time.
    To use this intervention, read or show one sentence
    of the following text, one sentence at a time. Allow
    students to laugh and snicker at each sentence
    before revealing the next phrase. This intervention
    works really well, and is fun. Enjoy!

    Here’s your new, high-paying job—
    and you can never be fired from it!
    Here’s your new, beautiful spouse, who is always
    cheerful, never sick, and has tons of money!
    Hope you like your new home. It’s your dream house
    and it’s paid for, and will never need repairs!
    Here’s all the possessions you’ve ever wanted, and,
    of course, they are already paid for!
    If life were this easy, you wouldn’t need us!

  • Sign This: Use this intervention with
    students who think your services are useless. This
    device is especially designed for older, harder-
    edged kids, and is not appropriate for younger
    kids and other youth. Please be thoughtful about
    using it as it is very surprising and unusual—but
    powerful and effective. Be sure this device is
    appropriate to your site and community.
    The next time you are having students signing forms,
    and completing paperwork tasks, simply include the
    text from the document below in the stack of papers,
    then put that paper away until another time. The
    next time a student tells you for the “hundredth”
    time that your school or agency is a waste, have
    the child review the following contract they signed.

    This rather wordy document essentially says: “I
    don’t want to be allowed to do anything I like,”
    (or use other similarly surprising content.) When
    the child says that they wouldn’t have signed
    the document if they’d understood it, you can
    respond: “Then maybe we still have something
    to offer you here.”

      The undersigned agrees to never attempt any participation, commitment or interest in any event, sport, past time, etc. that is a favorite or preferred selection. The undersigned wishes to never perform any favored activities including but not limited to use of electronics, telephony, etc. for the next millennium or longer.

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    much more for you on our web site,
    You should check out our compelling posters (see below)
    that actually can shock students into
    becoming more motivated about
    school.


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Withdrawn, Vulnerable Students?






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How Does High Stakes School Testing Affect Sad, Traumatized, Withdrawn, Vulnerable Students?

One of the hottest topics in our Problem Student
Problem Solver workshop staff development
sessions (click sign below for details)
has gotten to be participants’ upset
at the damage they see being caused by overzealous
state-wide assessment testing. As you may know,
some states have become so concerned about
measuring student progress, that many they have
highly rigorous testing. In some regions, teacher and
administrator employment and/or salary are based
on test scores. In at least one state, personnel
have been caught forging test results. In another
state, schools are actually given report cards, and
graded, with some schools failing. In other regions,
professional sport team mascots and cheerleaders
are hired to urge students to score well.


In one state, part of the progress assessment testing,
includes having students write an essay. One teacher
wrote the local newspaper to tell of her dismay when
one of her students wrote his essay on his return to
middle school following a period of dropping out due
to serious difficulties he was facing. The essay
was judged unsatisfactory when scored for
the test on such measures as grammar, punctuation,
etc. The teacher now had the difficult situation
of having a young, vulnerable student receive a
failing score on a highly sensitive topic. Worst
still, apparently the student’s story would also
have been failed even if the essay’s focus had
been to lament the death of his mother, or to
describe the beating of his sister. There is no
provision to adjust tests to the special needs of
students, or to give consideration to special
circumstances. This inflexibility is true across
many states that use progress testing.

The teachers and counselors who come to our
workshop, often ask if there are approaches
that could work better than what they view as
“education at all costs,” when students are
expected and pressured to produce regardless
of any family problems, disabilities, crises, or
personal horror that a child may be living with.
There are much better ways, and some of
the best, are described below. But, testing
does not leave only challenged kids buckling
under the pressure. My own 13 year old,
easy B+, honor roll mention, doesn’t-even-
study-much, normally unflappable student
burst into tears recently,terrified that she
will flunk the 10th grade tests she will face
that are still more than 2 years away!

Here Are Adaptations to Consider:

  • What Could Replace “Education at All Costs?”
    So often adults have two viewpoints towards
    educating youngsters in distress. Some adults
    say that no matter if the child is being beaten,
    or goes unfed, or whatever the distress, the
    child must still complete homework on time,
    take tests, etc. This can heap more misery on
    the shoulders of a deeply troubled youth.
    Others take the opposite tact and say they
    don’t want to add to the child’s problems,
    and so they won’t expect much from them.
    Sadly, this means the child may not get the
    education they still need. Instead of these
    extremes, find the balance between these
    viewpoints: never abandon your educational
    mission, but don’t accomplish it all costs.
  • Understand How Much Pain Exists
    Non-mental health professionals may be
    shocked at the surprisingly high numbers of
    children in pain. The literature suggests that
    perhaps 10% of the children (or a family
    member) may struggle with substances; 10%
    may be emotionally disturbed; 20-30% may
    face sexual abuse or incest; 10-15% may face
    verbal, physical or emotional abuse. Even
    though these numbers don't take into account
    the overlap across these groups, that's a lot
    of kids facing a lot of pain.
  • Stop the Pressure
    There are ways to evoke a desire to perform
    well that doesn’t have to be experienced as
    pressure. So many teachers believe that the
    pressure that is being exerted in their state
    is absolutely counterproductive to testing, and
    they are probably right. Instead of pressure,
    show how education skills will be needed in
    the adult world, and how critical they
    are to the kids’ futures, rather than relate
    learning skills to scoring well on assessment
    tests. Education is meant to prepare kids
    for the adult world, not for taking tests.
  • Train Kids to Be Students
    We don’t formally train youth to be students.
    Very few schools have a formal, written-down
    plan to teach attendance, punctuality,
    motivation, test-taking, homework management,
    discussion skills, how to focus, etc. If these
    nuts-and-bolts skills were systematically
    taught instead of just being expected, more
    kids might learn more, and yes, test scores
    could be enhanced.
  • Train Kids to Manage Anxiety and Problems
    We also don’t teach students how to manage big
    problems from home, and anxiety about tests and
    school. Learning problem management and how to
    overcome anxiety will be skills a child will need for
    an entire lifetime, and yes, could enhance test
    scores.
  • Stop Micro-Managing Teachers
    In many states, teachers are treated like money-
    grubbing scum. Teachers do the most important
    jobs on the planet, often for humble pay, and
    without thanks while also serving as parent,
    psychologist, nurse and pastor to many lost
    souls. Instead of making teachers’ jobs
    harder, give them more support and better
    training. Much of today’s teacher training is
    not geared to face the big social and emotional
    problems that arrive each day with the kids. We
    also have schools where classes include a
    whopping 38 youngsters and the sky can be seen
    through the holes in the classroom. We expect
    teachers to teach against all odds, all while
    consistently criticizing them and reducing their
    budgets.
  • Stop One-Size-Fits-All Testing
    Few accommodations are made at all in performance
    testing. A child who was raped the night before,
    or slept under a bridge, or witnessed terrible
    domestic violence, must still perform. No one
    wants lower standards, but build in some type
    of breathing room for students with serious
    or pronounced distress, disabilities,crises,
    cultural differences, ethnic differences,
    language differences, etc. In one state,
    many of the schools that performed
    poorly on state-wide tests were
    communities with many minority group
    members. Little effort seems to have
    been made to ensure that these tests
    were fair to children who were
    different from the dominant culture.
    So, their school flunked.
  • Stop Telling Schools They Flunk
    Imagine you are a six-year-old and you hear that
    your school flunked. Imagine the impact on you,
    especially if you struggle academically, or have a
    low opinion of yourself, or you already live with
    racial bias, or you’re a new immigrant feeling
    adrift in a new world…where even your school
    flunks. Let’s find more grown-up ways of
    referring to schools that struggle.

      Do you need better ways to motivate students and prevent school failure? We can help. school success behavior book Our Last Chance School Success Guide has so many unique, more effective ways to get students to finally appreciate the value of school. This book actually convinces potential dropouts that school is more important than the air they breathe, and helps them to finally develop the behaviors they need to succeed in school. Don't start the school year without it.

    If you want to see how the education world
    looks from outside the box, be sure to check
    out the hundreds of surprising, wonderful
    methods and ideas all over our huge web site
    (An example is shown above.) You certainly won’t find
    a focus on content or testing, but you will
    find common sense methods that work to
    build motivation, stop work refusal, help
    traumatized youngsters, and improve
    class participation.


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Helping Troubled, Vulnerable, and Maladjusted Students
Survive School Vacations

Here are some ideas to help you continue to make
a difference for stressed, maladjusted, troubled,
frightened, and vulnerable students during
school vacations. These ideas are all taken from
our web site (http://www.youthchg.com), books,
e-books and workshops.

  • Extend Your Reach: For some kids, their
    teacher may be the only sane, sober, caring
    adult they know, and then summer vacation
    comes. To extend the reach of teachers and
    other school-based youth workers who
    provide invaluable stability, safety, direction
    and nurturing, use this intervention: Address
    pre-paid post cards to the teacher (or other
    key school worker) at school, and give them
    to the child on the last day of school. Ask
    the child to write or draw on the post cards
    then drop in the mail. Studies show that
    children who have a sense of connection to
    the community do better on almost every
    measure including graduation rates, teen
    pregnancy, delinquency, etc. The post cards
    can preserve a bit of that connection over
    the potentially lonely and difficult summer.
  • Connect Back: Before leaving for
    summer vacation, the teacher (or
    other school worker) can write up
    post cards from the teacher to the
    child, and ask the school secretary
    to send out the cards over the summer.
    The post cards (or letters or small
    packages) can offer suggestions for
    summer activities, provide encouragement
    or contain specific activities that the
    child can do.


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  • Find Linkages: Prior to the
    summer break, research
    community groups that will
    provide a summer connection
    for your neglected, troubled or lonely
    students. Groups such as Boys
    and Girls Clubs, the YMCA, YWCA
    and Big Brother, Big Sister can
    provide activities, mentors, camp
    experiences and other key
    linkages. As delinquency tends to
    increase when youth are not
    involved in school or similar
    activities, it may be very important
    to structure summer vacation for
    youth who would otherwise be
    largely unshepherded.
  • Leisure Time Management: Kids
    chronically claim there is nothing
    to do. Show that there is always
    something to do. Divide your youth
    into 4 or 5 smaller groups. Ask each
    group to imagine they have each been
    given a small amount of money; one
    group might be told they have $2.00,
    the next group might have fifty cents,
    etc. One group can be asked to imagine
    they were given no money. Now, ask
    each group to determine all the
    activities, events and hobbies a person
    could do with that small amount of
    money. Provide access to phone books,
    newspapers, the internet, etc. to
    aid the groups to develop long lists.
    Write up all the groups’ answers
    and distribute to your kids. Include
    a wide range of activities such as
    visiting the library, playing hackey sack,
    reading, internships, sports, utilizing
    mass transit, volunteering, crafts, etc.
    Your kids will be amazed how much there
    is to do when there is nothing to do!
  • Reach a Dream: Discuss how Martin
    Luther King Jr. worked to reach his dream.
    Ask your students what they are willing
    to do to reach their dreams. Suggest that
    the summer months may be the perfect
    time to gain or perfect the skills needed
    to reach each dream.








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A Few Clicks Can Solve it All! Fast, New Tools at Youth Change’s Expanded Web Site

Get surprising, all-new tools to solve youth
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The brand new site is
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    It lets you quickly search our entire site to instantly
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      * Happy New School Year! For students who may be sour about returning to school, host a Happy New School Year Party similar to a Happy New Year Party. Students can make Happy New School Year Resolutions.

      * Punctuality Makers! To teach the importance of coming to school on time, ask students to name all the jobs and businesses they can do and show up whenever they want, or never show at all. (There are none.)


      * Attitude Busters! Use this intervention only with youth who would appreciate a humorous response like this. This intervention is not appropriate for every youth. When a child announces that they finally completed a task they had been repeatedly asked to do, such as arriving on time, say with a sly grin, “Thank you for doing what you are supposed to do!” Many children will reward you with a big grin.

      * Make School Matter! To teach students that even math matters, ask students to count the number of times that they use math, from counting the number of minutes left in class, to calculating their grades, to determining if they have enough money for lunch. Ask students to determine how long they can last without math, then once they start counting the minutes, note that they can’t even go one second without needing math!



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Students Coming Back to School
Doesn’t Have to Mean Back to Behavior Problems

There are so many great ways to motivate students to see the value of school, and have better behavior. Our web site is packed with hundreds of methods, but here is a small sampling to start off your new school year. If you’re a teacher, you will want to use every one of these gems. These interventions should be used beginning with Day 1:

  • Brains Replace Brawn: Many youth say that
    school is a waste, that they know many people who
    have survived without education and skills. But
    many of those people won’t be going as far into
    our new, high tech millennium as your students.
    Show them they’ll need education and skills to
    survive. At the start of the 20th century, 80%
    of jobs were manual labor. At the start of the
    21st century, an amazingly tiny 15% of jobs are
    manual labor. A strong back has been replaced by
    brains and fingertips.
  • Got Skills?: Few schools have a formal
    plan to train students on the nuts and bolts
    of being a student. Some students look that
    way! They don’t seem to have a clue how
    often to talk in class, manage their homework,
    arrive on time, etc. Be sure you teach all
    these skills, no matter how old or young
    your students are. Until they obtain these
    basic skills, they will struggle. Here is
    a very enjoyable way to easily teach
    even oppositional students to hear
    the homework assignment: Let your
    students know that “embedded” in some of
    the next assignments, will be a “goodie” that
    they will easily obtain just by carefully
    listening to the assignment as it is given.
    (You could direct listeners to cached
    cookies or stickers, for examples.)
    Be sure to cover all other aspects of
    homework management too. Many of our
    books provide dozens of lessons to teach
    all those additional components.


  • What is On Time, Really? Being on
    time can seem like unimportant to your
    youngsters. Ask them if they will ever
    need to work. When they say they will,
    ask them to name all the jobs that allow
    you to show up whenever you want, or
    never show up at all. There are none.

    *** BONUS TIP: For students who are nasty to others, adapt the preceding intervention. Ask the student to name all the jobs and businesses they can do and be mean whenever they want. There are none. Ask recently fired, winning Indiana coach Bobby Knight, who makes an excellent example of how anyone can lose their job. Show them nastiness does matter.

  • Lost in Cyber Space: High tech tools
    are becoming absolutely essential. In
    5-10 years, most bills may come via
    e-mail. Test your students’ readiness
    to survive on our High Tech Planet by
    having them define these terms: Mailer
    Daemon, DSL, Spam, Server, Secure, Domain.


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Intervention Counseling and Teaching Strategies for Troubled Girls

Working with girls, working with boys, it’s pretty much
the same, right? Wrong. Although in college, you probably
didn’t take any classes called “Special Issues for
Girls,” or “Girls’ Problems 101,” maybe there should be
classes like that. Using “one-gender-fits-all”
interventions can gloss over the special concerns that
many girls face.

These methods are taken from our books,
e-books, which you can reach by clicking here.

Here are some surprising facts about
girls that you may not know:

1-- Girls actually are a bit more likely than boys to face significant family problems, but are less likely than boys to be noticed because girls tend to be less overt and aggressive when distressed. Our communities tend to notice slashed tires not slashed wrists. For problems like sexual abuse and incest, girls may endure quite a bit more than their "fair share."


    Do you need better ways to work with girls and young women? We can help. girl help book Our What Every Girl Needs to Know About the Real World book has so many unique, more effective ways to help girls-- using methods that were crafted just for young females. No more one-gender-fits-all methods. Use methods that address the special issues of girls and young women, and watch your female students flourish.

2-- Although girls may face more problems, the bulk of help goes to boys. Girls are under-represented in nearly every service category, especially juvenile justice where girls may be just 25% of the clients. Boys get more intensive services, are served earlier, and for longer duration

3-- It is generally girls, not boys, who bear the most consequences of a teen pregnancy. Teen moms are the most likely to drop out of school, go on welfare, live in poverty and never get off welfare, a huge legacy of woes unique to females.

To work in a gender-proficient way with girls, you must
address girls’ special issues using gender-appropriate
methods, not “uni-sex” interventions. The strategies below
are interventions created especially for girls and focus
on areas of special concern for young females:

  • Mamas, Don’t Let Your Daughters Grow Up to Be Dropouts
    Recap the financial facts cited in #3 above, plus let your
    girls know these additional “Frightening Facts for
    Females:” No one earns less than a female drop-out, and
    she earns considerably less, plus her salary is
    expected to drop by about 1/2% annually, that’s 5% per decade.

    *** BONUS TIP: The income of female drop-outs is plummeting. For example, female drop-outs earned an average $17,000 in 1979 but just $16,300 in 1995 (all adjusted 1995 dollars.)



  • Would You Recommend It to a Friend?
    Ask girls to name all the solutions they would
    recommend to a friend who was feeling sad, lonely and
    unloved. List the answers on the board, or on paper,
    then note that having a baby is not listed. For girls
    who plan to have a baby to get love, you can ask them
    why they would select a course of action for themselves
    that they wouldn’t even recommend to a friend.

    *** BONUS TIP: Ask girls this question: Babies born in 2000 will cost $160,000-$237,000 to raise; will your allowance cover it? You can also assist the girls to figure out how well minimum wage jobs, girl behavior book Our Last Chance School Success Guide welfare and food stamps will cover these costs. Our “What Every Girl Needs to Know About the Real World” book is the source of lots more of these strategies. (click here to view both books)

  • Transform Miss Priss into Miss Piggy
    Perfectionism can be a surprisingly key issue for
    some girls. For example, links between perfectionism
    and eating disorders have long been noted, so easing
    a girl’s perfectionism can have a relevant ripple
    effect. If you work with Miss Priss, here is a
    quick strategy to help move her a bit in the other
    direction. Teach the girls the “3 Ps of Perfectionism”,
    the cycle of perfectionism. This may help them become
    a bit more in control of the cycle. So a girl wants to
    be perfect, thus the first ‘P’, Perfectionism. Doing
    everything perfect is hard, so she may put things
    off, thus the second ‘P’, Procrastination. Now
    the tasks that have been postponed have piled
    up and that is overwhelming, which can cause the third
    ‘P,’ Paralysis. The more you can assist your girls
    to avoid the later stages of the cycle, the better
    they may function.







    *** BONUS TIP: Teach girls that everybody makes mistooks and then you make one, then challenge your girls to make some mistooks too. Teach the girls that “everybody makes mistooks.” That may ease some pressure.


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Win the Power Struggles Every Time






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Got Defiant, Argumentative, Angry and Difficult Students?
Win the Power Struggles Every Time

Here’s the absolute, no-fail way to win every power
struggle with every kid every time: Don’t struggle
for power. Think about it. The minute an adult
wrestles with a kid for power, they’ve immediately
lost. And, the younger the child, the more true that
statement becomes. To give you an image, you want
to take your “sails” out of their wind, so to speak.
Here are some specific tips and tricks to use instead
of getting caught up in the “Yes, you will”-”No, I
won’t” battles when everybody loses.

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*** It’s Fun to Torture Adults: For many youngsters, it can seem like sport to “trap” an adult in a power struggle. What better way to get out of doing what you are supposed to be doing than to debate it? For example, if you run a counseling group, you may notice that it seems impossible to get some youngsters to come to group on time. Instead of taking group time to debate if “the bus was late” is a satisfactory excuse, turn it over to the group. The group may decide, for example, to have the latecomer clean up after the group is over, a natural consequence of inconveniencing the group members. Notice the issue switches from being an adult-kid issue to a kid-to-kid issue. Once your group has set a standard policy, never waste time debating again.

*** BONUS TIP: Set an on-going limit on how long you’ll discuss compliance issues. Your youngsters will know that they have only a brief time frame, and that this time can not be during group or class time, but on their own time.

    Like these ideas for misbehaved students? Here is the book that can help solve it all. conduct disorder books It's our Anti-Social Youth and Conduct Disorders book (click for details.) If you want to be securely in charge of your group, and best prepared to ensure safety at your site, you need this book. It just might be the best $15 you've spent in your life. What kind of a year will it be without this must-have resource for managing unmanageable kids? Let us help you stop the problems now.

*** Meet the Bickersons: Teach kids about the “bicker- backs”, when people get into a griping match. Teach them how to spot the “bickers” and to stop the “backs”. They’ll learn that you won’t bickerback and will give up attempting to bicker with you. This is a great device to give to families.

*** BONUS TIP: Teach kids “Ask once, you’re assertive, ask thrice, you’re aggressive.” This saying can become a common comment that youth use with each other, relieving you of some of the chore of confronting coercive behavior.

*** When Do You Let Them Have It?: We got that question recently in our workshop from a teacher who wanted to know a “really good put-down” to stop the bickering and clowning. This question was easy. You don’t ever “let them have it.” There is never a circumstance when it is okay to demean a child. Channel the child instead. For example, working with a class clown can be a battle as the child debates whether comments were “appropriate” or not. A fun approach is to ask the class clown to morph the comment for different audiences, such as for the boss on the job you really want. You are assisting the child to gain skill in adapting content to fit different circumstances, rather than focusing on squelching what could be a terrific asset for the long run. Successfully teaching the child to channel the humor can help the child become a wonderful team member in the work place, someone who can lighten up tense and difficult situations with appropriate humor.

*** BONUS TIP: Have your class or group establish rules about the number of talk-outs per hour, and to create a standing policy about what to do when problems occur. Without a recommended number for kids to follow, some won’t be able to discern a reasonable number on their own. Young people need practice providing self-governance; most adults don’t need that practice. With this intervention, not only do you shift the problems away from being adult-kid to kid-kid, but you are aiding your kids to practice essential self-management skills.

*** Defiance, Coercion and Acceptance: As you work to discern what to do in situations that could easily become power struggles, avoid coercing kids, and putting their backs to the wall so defiance becomes one of the few options left. The more you can use acceptance to find a mutually agreeable middle ground, the more success you will have with children and youth who would otherwise power struggle.

*** BONUS TIP: Be sure you know a lot about conduct disordered youth, your most hard-to-manage children. If you do not know this child “backwards and forwards, inside and out”, and how to work with this youth completely differently than everyone else, you will be very vulnerable to being entangled in power struggles for control and safety. Because conduct disorders are very slick and manipulative, you may not even fully appreciate exactly what is going on. There is no quick strategy to just disarm this youth. You must take the time to learn about their operating system and acquire the special set of techniques needed. You need to ensure you know all about this youth who may be 11-15% or more of your population.


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Helping Traumatized, Withdrawn Students During the Holidays

The holidays may not be a time of happy celebration
for many children and youth. Some face periods of
isolation with family members who will be seriously
impaired by substance abuse, or consumed with rage
or sadness. For other young people, the holidays can
mean losing connection with their lifelines, the
teachers, counselors and youth workers who are
the only sane, sober adults in their world. Other
youth return to their families on leave from
out of home placements, to find that new and old
famil