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Oppositional Defiant (ODD) Students: Must Have Methods If you are a counselor or teacher who finds that “nothing works” In college, you probably got very little training WHAT DOES OPPOSITIONAL-DEFIANT MEAN? **THE 3 AREAS OF HELP FOR ODD YOUTH **STRATEGIES TO STIMULATE THE CONSCIENCE OF ODD KIDS Remember: you’ve just gotten a tiny portion of the Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Forgotten Favorite Strategies for Unmotivated, Difficult and Misbehaved Students We have so many interventions that sometimes even some of Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Teachers: Did Your Training Prepare You to Work with Difficult, Tardy, Truant and Conduct Disordered Students? Teachers, when you received your training to teach,
the world probably looked much different. Guns
meant water pistols and gangs meant West Side Story. Here is a test to see if your skills have kept up with The answers are shown below and at the bottom you
can also rate your skills for working with today’s
youth and children. ANSWERS 1. CONDUCT DISORDERS. Bonus Question: If you use conventional 2. The child can become OPPOSITIONAL. Bonus Question: Acceptance is really the 3. TEEN MOMS Bonus Question: Teen moms also have 4. CONDUCT DISORDERS, THOUGHT Bonus Question: Each of these 3 children 5. ATTENDANCE SCORING: Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Teach Students Teacher Interaction Skills for Better Classroom Management and Control Teach Students Teacher Interaction Skills for Better Classroom Management and Control At our popular Breakthrough Strategies to Teach and So many students believe that they should be in charge Until trained to be students, some youngsters may Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Transform At Risk, Apathetic, Bored, Unmotivated, Disinterested, Negative Students If you know a student who utterly lacks motivation This rather wordy document essentially says: “I If you like these creative methods, we have so Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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How Does High Stakes School Testing Affect Sad, Traumatized, How Does High Stakes School Testing Affect Sad, Traumatized, Withdrawn, Vulnerable Students? One of the hottest topics in our Problem Student In one state, part of the progress assessment testing, The teachers and counselors who come to our Here Are Adaptations to Consider: If you want to see how the education world Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Helping Troubled, Vulnerable, and Maladjusted Students Survive School Vacations Helping Troubled, Vulnerable, and Maladjusted Students Here are some ideas to help you continue to make Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Get surprising, all-new tools to solve youth * Happy New School Year! For students who may
be sour about returning to school, host a Happy
New School Year Party similar to a Happy New
Year Party. Students can make Happy New School
Year Resolutions. * Punctuality Makers! To teach the importance
of coming to school on time, ask students to
name all the jobs and businesses they can do
and show up whenever they want, or never show at
all. (There are none.) * Attitude Busters! Use this intervention only
with youth who would appreciate a humorous
response like this. This intervention is not
appropriate for every youth. When a child
announces that they finally completed a task
they had been repeatedly asked to do, such as
arriving on time, say with a sly grin, “Thank
you for doing what you are supposed to do!”
Many children will reward you with a big grin. * Make School Matter! To teach students that
even math matters, ask students to count the
number of times that they use math, from
counting the number of minutes left in class,
to calculating their grades, to determining
if they have enough money for lunch. Ask
students to determine how long they can last
without math, then once they start counting
the minutes, note that they can’t even go
one second without needing math! Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Students Coming Back to School Doesn’t Have to Mean Back to Behavior Problems Students Coming Back to School There are so many great ways to motivate students to see
the value of school, and have better behavior. Our web
site
is packed with hundreds of methods, but here is a
small sampling to start off your new school year. If you’re a
teacher, you will want to use every one of these gems.
These interventions should be used beginning with
Day 1:
*** BONUS TIP: For students who are
nasty to others, adapt the preceding
intervention. Ask the student to name
all the jobs and businesses they can do
and be mean whenever they want. There
are none. Ask recently fired, winning
Indiana coach Bobby Knight, who makes
an excellent example of how anyone can
lose their job. Show them nastiness
does matter. Problem-Student Problem-Solver Information Library of Congress ISSN: 1526-9981 | Youth Change, Your Problem-Kid Problem-Solver | |||
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Intervention Counseling and Teaching Strategies for Troubled Girls Intervention Counseling and Teaching Strategies for Troubled Girls 1-- Girls actually are a bit more likely than boys to
face significant family problems, but are less likely
than boys to be noticed because girls tend to be less
overt and aggressive when distressed. Our communities
tend to notice slashed tires not slashed wrists.
For problems like sexual abuse and incest, girls may
endure quite a bit more than their "fair share." 2-- Although girls may face more problems, the bulk
of help goes to boys. Girls are under-represented in
nearly every service category, especially juvenile
justice where girls may be just 25% of the clients.
Boys get more intensive services, are served earlier, and
for longer duration To work in a gender-proficient way with girls, you must
*** BONUS TIP: The income of female drop-outs is
plummeting. For example, female drop-outs earned an
average $17,000 in 1979 but just $16,300 in 1995 (all
adjusted 1995 dollars.) *** BONUS TIP: Ask girls this question: Babies
born in 2000 will cost $160,000-$237,000 to raise;
will your allowance cover it? You can also assist
the girls to figure out how well minimum wage jobs,
*** BONUS TIP: Teach girls that everybody makes
mistooks and then you make one, then challenge your
girls to make some mistooks too. Teach the girls that
“everybody makes mistooks.” That may ease some pressure.
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Got Defiant, Argumentative, Angry and Difficult Students? Got Defiant, Argumentative, Angry and Difficult Students? Here’s the absolute, no-fail way to win every power How do we know what to recommend to you? This is
*** It’s Fun to Torture Adults: For many youngsters,
it can seem like sport to “trap” an adult in a power
struggle. What better way to get out of doing what
you are supposed to be doing than to debate it? For
example, if you run a counseling group, you may notice
that it seems impossible to get some youngsters to
come to group on time. Instead of taking group time
to debate if “the bus was late” is a satisfactory
excuse, turn it over to the group. The group may
decide, for example, to have the latecomer clean
up after the group is over, a natural consequence of
inconveniencing the group members. Notice the issue
switches from being an adult-kid issue to a
kid-to-kid issue. Once your group has set a
standard policy, never waste time debating again.
*** BONUS TIP: Set an on-going limit on how long
you’ll discuss compliance issues. Your youngsters
will know that they have only a brief time frame,
and that this time can not be during group or class
time, but on their own time.
*** Meet the Bickersons: Teach kids about the “bicker-
backs”, when people get into a griping match. Teach
them how to spot the “bickers” and to stop the
“backs”. They’ll learn that you won’t bickerback and
will give up attempting to bicker with you. This
is a great device to give to families.
*** BONUS TIP: Teach kids “Ask once, you’re assertive,
ask thrice, you’re aggressive.” This saying can
become a common comment that youth use with each
other, relieving you of some of the chore of
confronting coercive behavior.
*** When Do You Let Them Have It?: We got that
question recently in our workshop from a teacher who
wanted to know a “really good put-down” to stop the
bickering and clowning. This question was easy. You
don’t ever “let them have it.” There is never a
circumstance when it is okay to demean a child.
Channel the child instead. For example, working
with a class clown can be a battle as the child
debates whether comments were “appropriate” or
not. A fun approach is to ask the class clown to
morph the comment for different audiences, such as
for the boss on the job you really want. You are
assisting the child to gain skill in adapting
content to fit different circumstances, rather
than focusing on squelching what could be a
terrific asset for the long run. Successfully
teaching the child to channel the humor can help
the child become a wonderful team member in
the work place, someone who can lighten up tense
and difficult situations with appropriate humor.
*** BONUS TIP: Have your class or group establish
rules about the number of talk-outs per hour,
and to create a standing policy about what to do when
problems occur. Without a recommended number for kids
to follow, some won’t be able to discern a reasonable
number on their own. Young people need practice
providing self-governance; most adults don’t need that
practice. With this intervention, not only do you shift
the problems away from being adult-kid to kid-kid,
but you are aiding your kids to practice essential
self-management skills.
*** Defiance, Coercion and Acceptance: As you work to
discern what to do in situations that could easily
become power struggles, avoid coercing kids, and putting
their backs to the wall so defiance becomes one of the
few options left. The more you can use acceptance to
find a mutually agreeable middle ground, the more
success you will have with children and youth who would
otherwise power struggle.
*** BONUS TIP: Be sure you know a lot about conduct
disordered youth, your most hard-to-manage children.
If you do not know this child “backwards and forwards,
inside and out”, and how to work with this youth
completely differently than everyone else, you will
be very vulnerable to being entangled in power
struggles for control and safety. Because conduct
disorders are very slick and manipulative, you may
not even fully appreciate exactly what is going on.
There is no quick strategy to just disarm this youth.
You must take the time to learn about their
operating system and acquire the special set of
techniques needed. You need to ensure you know
all about this youth who may be 11-15% or more
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Helping Traumatized, Withdrawn Students During the Holidays Helping Traumatized, Withdrawn Students During the Holidays The holidays may not be a time of happy celebration For many children in pain, You have probably already noticed the pronounced
*** Teach: Kids Can’t Solve Family Problems
For children who attempt to regulate problem
drinking or to stop family fights, teach them
that young people are not equipped to solve
serious family problems. The more you can
lighten the responsibilities that these
children carry, the more you may be able to
help lessen the depression, despair or
withdrawal that the child experiences. By
assisting the youngster to better manage holiday
difficulties, you may also notice that the
child will not have as many problems returning
to their routine after the holidays have passed. *** BONUS TIP: Assist children to anticipate
specific family problems, and determine what
to do, and what not to do. For example, the
child could be concerned about family members
yelling, and could be aided to determine
that screaming at family members to stop
yelling, may just result in more yelling,
but that leaving the area, could help
a bit. For younger kids, have the kids sort
the potential family problems into “Things I
Can Change” and “Things I Can’t Change.” *** Teach: Happy Holidays Aren’t Always Happy
Many youngsters believe that the holidays are
or should be times of happiness. Teach your
youth that the holidays can also be for many
people, a time of struggle, and that is normal
and understandable for those who face
challenges. Assist children who are in
families whose difficulties may not ease on
one special day, to hold realistic
expectations for what will happen. *** BONUS TIP: To assist older youth
to have a perspective about what they
face, consider having them read about the
lives of people who have managed to
ultimately blossom after a very rough
start. Maya Angelou’s “I Know Why the
Caged Bird Sings,” Dave Pelzer’s,
“A Child Called ‘It,’” or Mary Karr’s
“Liar’s Club” are three powerful
classics to consider if you find them
appropriate. The timeless “Diary of
Anne Frank” can help instill courage,
wisdom and strength in some youth
who are struggling. Her descriptions
of her holidays in hiding, can convey
so much more than mere talking to a
child, could ever do. *** Teach: About Feeling Management
Children who grow up in troubled homes, often
learn little of value about managing anger,
depression, sadness and other feelings that
can be part of the holidays. Whatever your
role is with the child, be sure that the
child understands acceptable ways to manage
anger, sadness or other emotions. Any
emotion that the child doesn’t already
know how to manage, is likely to be acted
out or acted in. That is part of why
depression, suicide, substance abuse
and domestic violence can increase
or worsen during holiday times. You may
be able to reduce this trend by giving
your youth the tools they need to manage
their emotions. *** BONUS TIP: To moderate the general
deterioration that children from
troubled homes may experience during
the holiday season, find a way to
maintain contact. Studies show that
children who maintain a sense of
connection to their community, do
better on everything from teen
pregnancy rates to graduation rates.
Consider giving your students
postcards to send to you throughout
the holiday vacation. Also consider
mailing cards to students who may
urgently need that connection.
Younger students can be helped
to make calendars to show that
the vacation time is passing.
Youth of any age can be assisted
to locate community youth groups
that continue to provide services
throughout the holiday season. *** Helping Others Can Help the Child
To further foster the sense of
connection to the community, deter
depression via continued activity,
and give a deeper perspective,
consider asking some youth and
children from troubled homes, to
give to others. Although it may
seem paradoxical to ask youth who
struggle, to give to others, the
act of giving implies that life
must go on despite the struggles.
Giving can soothe the child’s soul,
offer the mind something productive
to focus on, and instill a sense of
purpose and success in a life that
can seem without positive goals and
results. Giving can mean making
cards for elderly nursing home
patients, baking cookies for the
police who work on the holiday, or
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You may have read this headline in your local
newspaper this week: “Dropout Rate Getting
Worse.” The article noted that despite
all the advancements made in our society,
we still do not know how to ensure
that we fully educate all of our young.
The new studies show that fewer than half
of the 9th graders in many of the nation’s
largest cities, ever graduate. The studies
clearly show that the dropout rate isn’t
dropping. And, in particular, the dropout
rate isn’t dropping for poor and minority
students.
Amazingly, though so many lament the rising
dropout rate, our schools continue to lack
formal plans—or any plans—to teach
students motivation. Most schools have no
game plan to ensure that students understand
that school will be utterly essential to
surviving and thriving in the new millennium.
Schools expect youth and children to act
as though school is important, but they
never teach them to believe that.
Years ago, families ensured that their
offspring recognized the value of school.
Many contemporary families may fail
to instill that outlook, or the family may
actually convey to the child that school is
not important. Since many families are
not motivating their children to be
involved, interested students, youth
professionals, like teachers and counselors
may need to provide this training.
Otherwise, it is likely the dropout rate
will continue to not drop, but only worsen.
Here are some attention-grabbing strategies
to convince even the most apathetic student
that they must stay in school. They are taken
from one of my most popular books, “All
the Best Answers for the Worst Kid Problems:
Maximum-Strength Motivation-Makers.” For
details on this book, click below.
** Ask students if they will ever
need to work: The world has changed. 100
years ago, factory work was the booming
job, and it required no education. Today,
managing facts and data is the booming
job as employment in the computer field
grows at a rate of 77% . Meanwhile,
factories are increasingly automated.
Most computer-related jobs require
education and at least a high school
diploma.
** Ask students which century they will
be prepared for: In 1900, the most
common jobs were farm laborer and domestic
servant—education not needed. Now, the
most common jobs are office and sales
worker—education and diploma usually
needed. An amazing 6 out of 10 people
today work in a store or office.
** Ask students to play the “Replace
Me” Game: Have students name jobs and
businesses that they can “always” do
without a diploma. List their responses
on the board. Ask the students to devise
a way that the employee could be replaced.
For example, the coming trend in fast
food is to use computers rather than
people to run the restaurant. A prototype
is apparently already being tested. The
students should discover that most jobs
that lack education and diploma
requirements, may be ripe for automation.
**BONUS INTERVENTION
** Ask students to name all the jobs and
businesses they may ever want to do: Then
ask the students to determine how many of
these jobs require a diploma or GED.
Overwhelmingly, they will notice that
many of the best-paying, highest status,
most attractive jobs with the best pay,
benefits and tenure, require a diploma
to even apply. Assist students to realize
that “dropping out leaves you defenseless.”
**BONUS INTERVENTION
** For students who claim they will not
need an education, ask them to manage
the following adult situations:
Answers: 1-Retail is much higher than
wholesale, and is the much better choice.
2-You need an internet service provider
to link you to the internet. 3-Never,
interest accrues while you skip the payment.
That $7 movie ticket that you charged could
end up costing $39 if you pay slowly enough.
4- Can you spell “scam”?
Emphasize to your students that if they
get an education, they’ll learn the
answers to these questions and/or how
to get the answers. There are great ways
to keep students for dropping out. You’ve
just read a few of them. There are many more on
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