WHAT DOES OPPOSITIONAL-DEFIANT DISORDER LOOK LIKE?
Oppositional-defiant kids are often some of your most
misbehaved students. They may disrupt your class,
hurt others, defy authority and engage in illegal
or problematic conduct. Though students with ODD may look similar
to conduct disorders, their bad behavior is usually
less severe, less frequent, and of shorter duration.
The ODD label is often inaccurately applied as this
dynamic can be a difficult concept to grasp and apply correctly. Because
many mental health professionals understandably hesitate to assign the heavy-duty
conduct disorder label, they sometimes use the diagnosis of ODD as kind of a parking
spot. This convention results in people using methods for ODD with conduct disordered youngsters who would
have potentially benefitted from methods for CDs instead. CDs will be adversely affected and poorly
managed by the use of strategies designed for students with ODD. In this issue, we are focusing on
strategies for children and teens who appear to have ODD.
THE 3 AREAS OF HELP FOR ODD YOUTH
To help the child with ODD, you must focus on:
1) Skill building
2) "Pulling up" that conscience-- example strategies are below
3) Improving their relationship skills.
For skill building, teaching them how to regulate their
anger, actions, peer skills, verbal output, etc. will
be critical. (Note that CDs benefit from this training as well.)
But equally important, the child with ODD must
be aided to care about others, and to be guided more
by conscience. (Note that CDs almost never benefit from this type of aid, and usually
become more out-of-control as they assume the adult has "no clue" if they are using
methods that involve utterly foreign and irrelevant concepts like conscience, remorse, guilt, and trust.)
In our workshops, we give dozens of effective interventions for stimulating the conscience of
children and teens who evidence ODD. We will supply a few of the best here. These interventions will only focus
on stimulating that conscience or "compensating" for it.
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or you want to see how to build skills and
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STRATEGIES TO STIMULATE OR SIMULATE THE CONSCIENCE
for Students Who Appear to Have ODD
You can use these methods with or without the diagnosis. Remember that
these interventions must be combined with the other key focus areas for students
with ODD: skill training and relationship training. Also, remember these
methods are not appropriate for use with that other type of very misbehaved youngster,
children with conduct disorder.
STRATEGY #1
Before a child undertakes a problem behavior, ask
the youth to imagine that s/he will read about that
act on the cover of the local newspaper in the morning.
Ask the child their reaction. If they say that they
wouldn't want to read about it in the newspaper the next
morning, then you can say "Then don't do it!" This
image makes a fast and easy guide for kids to
follow to evaluate whether or not to do questionable
behaviors. This intervention is a good choice to use
with children whose conscience provides little guidance.
STRATEGY #2
This intervention can be used before or after the child has engaged in
misbehavior. For example, let's say the child has
stolen the teacher's pen, you can say "I want you to
imagine that we're making a video about your life.
Are you impressed?" That uncomfortable sensation that
the child may have in reaction to this intervention may
be the conscience stirring.
STRATEGY #3
After the child has engaged in a problem behavior, such
as stealing a pen, as in the example above, ask the
child, "So what's your integrity worth to you?"
STRATEGY #4
To adapt the intervention shown above for young
children, simply rephrase the question to "So what's
people believing in you, worth to you?" Or, rephrase
it to "So what's people trusting you, worth to you?"
STRATEGY #5
Have students list problem behaviors, and write their responses in a column
on a board. Next, in a second column, have them list the likely consequences of each behavior.
Inform students that they can no longer say "I didn't know what was going to happen next," or
make similar disclaimers because they have just shown they can make good guesses to predict
the future. This strategy is another substitute for the conscience as students can "guess
ahead" before choosing to engage in problem behaviors.
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