To begin to tackle all the problems without feeling so overwhelmed, follow these
steps:
First, write down all the
concerns you are seeing in your office or classroom. Next, prioritize them.
Typically, safety and attendance are top priorities, but you may decide
differently. Finally, tackle your top three priorities first, then move
down the list as each area shows clear improvement. See how easy that was?
Now, instead of feeling overwhelmed, or worried that your class or group is
completely out of control, you are focusing on just a portion of the problems
a few at a time. The big picture may be overwhelming,
but by addressing just manageable
pieces, the job seems more do-able, doesn't it?
You are probably also trying to figure out how you work with so many different types of
kids at one time. Our methods
were designed to work with a wide array of
troubled, abused and problem youth. So many times, resources are
aimed at a tiny portion of the varied population you serve; that's part of
why you may be struggling. You may be attempting to stretch a few approaches
to work with a big cross-section of kids and problem areas. That's like trying to
get all your students to wear the same size jacket. It's just not practical. You will
find that if you will incorporate targeted methods
specifically tailored to work with that broad cross-section, you will get
much better results. Think of the array of problem kids you see:
neglected, assaultive, aggressive,
physically abused, attachment disordered,
autistic, sexually abused, verbally abused, kids with
bad behavior, anti-social, Aspergers, FAS, FAS-effect (Fetal
Alcohol Syndrome), adolescent adjustment reactions, emotional problems, thought
disordered, emotionally disturbed, behavior disordered, adolescent depression,
withdrawal, anxious, truant, defiant, unmotivated, hostile, special ed, learning disabled,
English Language Learner (ELL/ESL) and more! When you consider the scope of the
problems, it becomes clear that one-size-fits-all methods may fit almost no one. Test some
of the targeted approaches from our site, and watch how much more quickly you get the
results you wanted all along.
One last fact that may apply: youth professionals tend to use the same five
approaches over and over and over. Think how far you are stretching a mere handful of
methods to work with your huge assortment of students and problems.
As you look through our delightfully different, more
targeted methods, you will be finding the varied remedies you need to fit the varied
young people and problems you see each day. A favorite resource for students who
are big behavior problems in school is shown below, but we recommend that you choose
resources by matching the problems to the remedy. If misbehavior in school is a top problem,
then The Last Chance School Success Guide shown below is a good option-- but only if
it fits your priority areas. Remember, focus on just those
top three problems at one time. We're here to help if you need us. Call 1-800-545-5736
or email us.
A-Z, from ADD to Bad Attitudes to Conduct Disorders to Defiance to Zero Interest
in School, we can help!
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