How to Prevent School Violence: Mental Detectors not Metal Detectors

 

 

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How to Prevent School Violence:
Mental Detectors
not Metal Detectors

 

 

At our Breakthrough Strategies to Teach and Counsel Troubled Youth Workshops around the country, youth professionals continue to report seeing more and more children from deeply troubled homes. If you are not a mental health worker, your college training may not have prepared you for working with children whose behavior is driven by the trauma they endure at home. This Behavior and Classroom Management Blog issue gives you a few of the basics all youth professionals need to know in order to maximize their ability to successfully do their job with children from deeply troubled homes. However, please note that these introductory basics are just the very start of the information you'll need.

how to prevent school violenceI am Youth Change Director, Ruth Herman Wells, M.S. At age 21, I began my career in a locked state hospital setting working with the most violent youth in Oregon. The first day on the job, I was severely bitten by a 12 year-old felon. That injury plagued me for years. I resolved at that moment to learn everything I could about out-of-control children and teens. I realized that nothing I had learned in college prepared me for the real world of working with acting-out, violent students. I was surprised that I had to piece together the answers I needed, that there was no apparent ready-to-go source of specific, updated, real-world strategies. Let me share with you some of what I learned about how to prevent youth violence.

Due to the short space I have here, this article focuses more on potentially violent children who may be bullied, depressed, in crisis or have huge family problems. However, many violent students and potentially violent students evidence another dynamic. Read more about those youngsters in another Behavior and Classroom Management Blog educational article.

As more and more contemporary children seem to have major family problems compared to years past, it is absolutely critical that both you and your team thoroughly know mental health basics. Since studies emphasize that seeing and helping distressed youth are the primary ways to prevent school shootings, that's another reason that non-mental health youth professionals like educators must upgrade their skills right away. As Richard Lawrence of St. Cloud State University has noted, "We need more mental detectors, not metal detectors in schools."

 

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See the Pain

How are your "mental detection" skills? Some youth professionals never notice that they're working with children in distress. Not noticing makes it more likely that you might add to the child's burdens, and these children already carry a heavy load. You may also miss any cues that show that this is a child who could one day explode in violence.

Learn to look deeper into problems like sleeping in class, depression, back talk, irritability, and poor performance, to consider if family problems could be the cause. For example, a child may sleep in class not because she's "just a lazy kid" but because it's the only place she has free from the all-night roar of Dad hitting and berating Mom.

 

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You Can't Fix It


If you are not a family therapist, be careful about focusing your efforts on changing the family. Veteran counselors struggle to impact severely troubled families. Non-family counselors are unlikely to have the desired impact because they lack the time, expertise, and training to succeed. As a non-mental health worker, your expertise lies with children. Put your energy there instead. You can certainly encourage the family to seek counseling, but understand that family therapy should not be provided by people outside the mental health field.

 

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Offer Accommodations


The night after a beating, it can be tough to focus on math. If you have data to indicate abuse, of course you report it, but if you only suspect trauma, be prepared to offer accommodations. If you give traumatized youngsters time to process and recover from recent crises, they will work as hard as they can on days that they are able. Can you fairly ask any more of a human being than that? Since school shooters often feel persecuted or badly treated by others, here is another reason to show you are sensitive and caring instead of adding to the perception that people are mean and just don't care.

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Fill in the Gaps


If you can't get the family to do their job, then you fill in the gaps. For example, you may help a child devise a plan to wake up for school each morning, but have granola bars, sox, and other items that the child may need in order to function throughout the day at your site. It's tragic that you must cover for the family to such an extent but if you don't, the child will continue to suffer, and may be so distracted by his unmet physical needs that he can't benefit from the services your site offers. Since studies show that many school shooters were having trouble coping, that is another compelling reason to fill in the gaps. Most school shooters are also young males, thus the use of that particular pronoun here.

 

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Evaluate and Upgrade Deficit Skills


Here is a very quick way to see if your team members are competent "mental detectors" able to spot children in distress. Can your team members name the 4 most common mental health/ family problems that children face? The answer is included in our Follow-Up Resources section immediately below, but before you scroll down to look, stop and consider if you know the answer. (To all our Breakthrough Strategies to Teach and Counsel Troubled Youth Workshop past participants: you should all know this.)

If all the members of your team cannot name these 4 problems, how can they spot children with these concerns? Teams that do not know how to spot distress lack the ability to prevent school shootings. Don't believe us? This assertion originates with the 2003 Secret Service/ U.S. Dept. of Ed study on school shooters. Upgrade deficient skills now– for the sake of students who suffer– and to more effectively ensure that a shooting never happens at your site. As the study indicates, metal detectors will never work as well as mental detectors.

 

student violence prevention How to Prevent School Violence
Follow-up Resources


Did you know the top 4 mental health/family problems that children face? These problems can affect the child directly or another family member. These problems are: 1) substance abuse; 2) severe emotional disturbance; 3) sexual abuse; and 4) physical, verbal or emotional abuse. If you didn't know this, that means you need to upgrade your skills. Some suggestions: our Breakthrough Strategies to Teach and Counsel Troubled Youth Workshop is a fast, comprehensive option. You don't have to come to a live class. You can also get the entire course online, and you can bring the workshop to your site or conference. We still have popular back-to- school dates open for on-site inservice sessions, but they are rapidly disappearing. Call to schedule your class now: 1.800.545.5736.

Another resource: Our Child's Guide to Surviving in a Troubled Family is full of lessons to ease the difficulties that distressed children endure. It is $15. If these options don't meet your needs, email us for help finding resources that would work for you. We care about you and your students and we are here to help. Please note that many of our resources are free or low cost, and we offer scholarships to our workshops.

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About Ruth Herman Wells

Author/Trainer Ruth Herman Wells, M.S. is the director of Youth Change Professional Development Workshops. In 2011, Ruth was rated as a Top 10 U.S. K-12 educational and motivational speaker by Speakerwiki and Speakermix. She is the author of several book series, a columnist, adjunct professor for two universities, and a popular keynote speaker and workshop presenter. Ruth's dozens of books includes Temper and Tantrum Tamers and Turn On the Turned-Off Student.